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Ask anything. Hear what Zan would say.

Your personal AI mentor and guide, drawn from all of my books, talks and interviews. Any question, any hour. Zan Perrion in your pocket.

Any hour · Any language · $495 a year

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A note from me

I can't respond to every question. So I made something that can.

For twenty-five years, men have asked me thousands of questions in a thousand different ways. On calls and at workshops, in cafés and on balconies, and in messages at two in the morning about a woman who has gone quiet.

So I gathered everything: the books, the talks, the interviews, the workshops and the calls. Twenty-five years of everything I have ever said about women, beauty and the art of living, in one place, and ready to answer you.

It is not me, and it will never pretend to be. But it has read every page I have written and listened to every hour of my talks, and it sees things exactly the way I see them. Ask it the question you would have asked me.

— Zan

What it does

A mentor who never sleeps

Ask it anything

The woman who is slipping away from you. The approach you didn’t make. What to say tonight, and who to become this year. It answers the way I would, with the stories I would tell.

It remembers your story

A short private notebook of your life and the people in it, so you never begin again from the beginning. You can read every line, and erase any of it.

The Way of the Amorati

When you are ready, and only if you choose, my course comes to you one theme a week: a morning practice, a small challenge in the real world, a check-in, and a reflection to close.

In your own language

Talk to it in Spanish, German, Romanian, or whatever is closest to your heart, and it answers in kind.

It knows tonight

Where to go, what is on, a café worth sitting in. It looks up places and events in your city and gives you the link. It never looks up a person.

The Folio, and private conversations

Keep the answers worth keeping in your private Folio on your own shelf. And when you need it, open an incognito conversation: nothing of it is kept, no history, no note, no trace.

The Evening Dare

Tell it where you are going tonight, and receive one small, specific invitation to try. Tomorrow it asks how it went.

The text, before you send it

Paste the message you are about to send her. It suggests my edit, or tells you not to send it, and why.

Ask the Archive

"Have you ever talked about jealousy?" returns the actual moments, with dates and sources (the 2017 workshop, the 2021 podcast).

A letter, at the end of the year

A real letter, after your first month, and at the end of each year, about the man it has watched you become.

By the numbers

Twenty-five years of Zan’s work, counted

4.2 million wordsin 25,487 passages: 24,160 spoken and 1,327 written. That’s about thirty times the length of The Alabaster Girl.
753 recordingsof Zan in talks, interviews, workshops and private calls, averaging about an hour each.
23 years on tapefrom 2003 to 2026. The busiest year: 2021.
8,848 real questionsthat men actually asked Zan, on calls, at workshops and in interviews.
1,549 storiesin 3,072 tellings. 522 of them were told more than once, each time a little differently.
The most-told storyquitting the corporate job to hit the road with a carry-on bag: 46 tellings. Then the Nicaraguan fishing village where Zan went to finish The Alabaster Girl (38), and leaving home at thirteen to live in the forest (37).
19,237 times“women” or “woman” in Zan’s talks and writing. Of course.
2,563 invitations“invitation”, “invite” and “invited”: the heart of Zan’s approach.
Coffee 562, Casanova 524Zan mentions coffee more often than Casanova.

Membership

$495 a year

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