I am a gypsy pirate, a romance artist trying to gently push the world towards a more natural and enlightened form of interaction between men and women, trying to make people see beauty for what it is and reach it more easily, and, along the way, trying to inspire a more elegant way of moving trough life.
I am immensely curious, charmed and fascinated, on an adventure, itinerant, having enormous fun in life, never needy, never attached to the outcome, never serious, but always sincere. I am a lover of beauty, in all its forms… art, in all its forms. I am a lover of life and its immense potential. I am a lover of women, and if your heart is sincere, you will understand exactly what that means.
I am seduced. And if you could see even one tenth of the beauty I see in a woman, you too would be seduced, you too would believe, you too would live your life surrounded by boundless beauty and grace.
“The Alabaster Girl is highly poetic, sharp, and engaging. It’s easy to fall into the rabbit hole of the narrator’s musings, part poem and part half-remembered dreams. The book is an ode to a deep appreciation of women and to the dance of the masculine and feminine as old as time.” – San Francisco Book Review
“… a richly compelling, beautifully poetic journey into the heart of relationships… an astonishingly insightful guide to the paradoxes of love. This opus is best relished in small sips, allowing time for its many a-ha moments to weave themselves into your own tapestry of self-discovery. Highly recommended!” – Steve Pavlina
“The Alabaster Girl is a breath of fresh air. In a world filled with disdain between the sexes, Zan Perrion’s epic prose gleefully breaks down notions that occupy the modern psyche and public discourse on men and women.” – Masculine Books
– Excerpt from the book –
After years of exploration, my beliefs took the form of Ars Amorata – a philosophy of Beauty and an attempt to lift it to its rightful place as the primary principle in our hearts and in the world. It is my guiding thread wherever I am invited to talk, be it an event, a conference or a university lecture.
But it became a brand and a venture, too… an organised enterprise with a calendar of meetings, workshops, public and private events, video series and regular online programs – courses, weekend seminars, telecoaching and personal one-on-one mentoring. It’s a way to properly answer some of the most burning questions men have, a way to reach more people who commit to changing their life forever.
It becomes a way of life. Not a religion, but a belief system, similar to the way one might call Stoicism a belief system or a way of life. It is a layer that exists (or not) below all religion and all social structures. And it belongs to anybody.
It also becomes a lot of practical things (like eye contact, body language, style etc.) and helpful qualities (like confidence, sincerity, friendliness etc.), but not because some learned tips and tricks, but rather due to the fact that one becomes better, more profound, and naturally adjusts his feelings and behaviour accordingly.
A brotherhood of men who have chosen to move through the world in a different way than other men. They are men who pause, who celebrate women, who design their life instead of reacting, who move through this world deliberately, with purpose and strength, with respect, with true ease and delight. They are men who love women and who are loved by women. They are men who love life and gracefully embrace it.